As Imam al‑Ghazali taught, people hear according to the light that dominates their hearts. If we are to rebuild trust on good terms, certain boundaries must be honored going forward. These are not punishments; they are conditions for healthy, ethical communication. They reflect the Qur’anic model of listening before judging, engaging the person directly, and refusing the footsteps of Satanic patterns such as projection, distortion, and triangulation. 1. Direct Communication Only — No Triangulation If you have a concern, question, or discomfort with someone, you bring it to them, not to others. No intermediaries. No “flying monkeys.” No speaking about Read More …