Mikaeel Ahmed Smith: Before You Teach Listening, Learn to Acknowledge Sources

The Ethics of Echoes: What a Plagiarism Dispute Teaches Us About the Art of Listening

In an era of relentless content, we are often surrounded by sound but starved for connection. The distinction between “hearing” and “listening” has become a vital ethical boundary. Hearing is biological; listening is moral. In a digital landscape where ideas circulate rapidly, the tension between inspiration and unattributed overlap reveals a deeper question about gratitude and integrity. A recent dispute involving Mikaeel Ahmed Smith’s use of my work and ideas highlights this tension and offers a broader lesson in how we receive, process, and acknowledge the wisdom that shapes us.

1. Listening as an Internal Excavation

True listening does not begin at the ear; it begins with the soul. Drawing on the primordial concept that humanity was fashioned from clay, we must recognize that we are inherently impressionable—possessing a dual capacity to be molded and, crucially, to mold and shape those around us. However, our ability to “shape” others ethically depends on our internal clarity.

Before we can truly receive a message, we must engage in an internal excavation to identify our “inner noise.” This noise is a collection of biases, insecurities, and ego-driven static that distorts the frequency of incoming truth. When we fail to quiet this cacophony, we do not listen; we merely colonize others’ words with our own assumptions. As Wazwaz wrote and was plagiarized by Smith, the mastery of this internal silence is what transforms a “cacophony of inner noise into a wonderful symphony.”

2. The Three-Level Architecture of True Listening

Listening is not a static architecture: listening to oneself, listening to others, and listening to the Divine. This framework is profoundly holistic; the levels do not exist in isolation but function as a unified system of ethical literacy.

To listen to others with integrity, one must first be attuned to the self. Furthermore, in many spiritual traditions, honoring the human vessel is inseparable from honoring the Divine Source. Therefore, a failure to attribute a peer’s work is not merely a professional lapse; it is a breakdown of the entire architecture. If one cannot “listen” to the effort and presence of a fellow human being, one’s claim to be “listening” to the Divine remains incomplete and performative.

3. Protecting Work as Stewardship, Not Ego

A common modern fallacy suggests that requesting proper citation is a sign of ego or resentment. This misunderstanding ignores the nature of stewardship. When a writer asks for accurate attribution through private and professional channels, they are not seeking attention — they are protecting the integrity and lineage of their ideas. When patterns of unattributed overlap appear in someone’s work, it becomes necessary to examine the material more closely to ensure that proper scholarly ethics are upheld.

This is not about vanity; it is about the integrity of the message. I am the writer of these reflections, and the concepts taken were not generic platitudes but specific, carefully developed ideas: that fitnah molds the soul, that struggle is an opportunity, that victory comes in unexpected forms, and that none of us ‘deserve’ the gifts we receive. These are not loose themes floating in the public domain — they are the result of years of my own writing, teaching, and refinement.

When another author, Smith, reproduces these distinctive markers without attribution, it is not a minor oversight. It erases the author and the lineage of the thought itself. As the originator of these ideas, I have a responsibility to protect their integrity. Acknowledging the source is not an act of ego; it is an act of stewardship. It ensures that the water can be traced back to the hands that drew it from the well.

4. Gratitude (Shukr) as a Practical Ethic

The most piercing dissonance in this situation lies in the gap between public devotion and private practice. He frequently speaks about his love for the Name Ash‑Shakur — the Appreciative, the One who recognizes even the smallest effort — yet he failed to acknowledge or credit the work from which he benefited. Gratitude, or shukr, is not merely an emotion; it is an ethic.

It requires recognizing the means through which one receives benefit, including intellectual labor. To draw from another writer’s work without naming them contradicts the very essence of thankfulness. If one claims to love the Appreciative, then one’s professional conduct should reflect that appreciation. Integrity requires that our ethics of attribution align with the devotion we profess.

5. The Gap Between Intent and Assumption

When a professional request for fairness is met with defensiveness, we see a failure to listen in real time. This friction usually arises because the recipient’s “inner noise”—their own assumptions of malice or personal attack—overwhelms the sender’s clear intent.

This is where the internal excavation mentioned earlier becomes critical. If a writer perceives a request for a citation as an assault on their character, it reveals more about their internal distortions than the actual request. True listening requires the recipient to set aside the ego’s defensive reflex to hear the objective call for justice and citation. A request for a footnote is not an attack; it is an invitation to join a community of honest scholarship.

Conclusion: Honoring the Source

I do not know him personally; I recognize only the ideas and reflections that are distinctly my own. Ultimately, honoring human sources is an extension of honoring the Giver of all wisdom. When we acknowledge the individuals whose work has shaped our thinking, we practice a form of spiritual and intellectual honesty. Transparency is the hallmark of a mind that listens well and is guided well.

In an age filled with echoes, we must ask ourselves: Are we merely amplifying sound, or are we truly listening? When we draw from shared wells of inspiration, do we have the humility to honor the hands that lifted the bucket? To ignore the source is to mute the symphony; to acknowledge it is to participate in the divine ethic of gratitude.

Reference:

In 2016, I wrote extensively about the ethics of listening — not merely as a social skill, but as an inner discipline. I explored how “inner noise” distorts our perception, how feelings can masquerade as facts, and how true listening requires boundaries, humility, and self‑awareness. I used the story of Khawlah bint Tha’labah to illustrate how revelation itself teaches us to distinguish between emotional projection and ethical clarity.

These reflections were part of a larger body of work examining:

  • how we listen to ourselves
  • how we listen to others
  • how we listen to God
  • how boundaries protect the oppressed
  • how healing requires both justice and compassion

The themes were not generic; they were specific, carefully developed frameworks that I continued to refine in later writings and teachings. This whole idea and way of thinking was suddenly taken by Mr. Smith without any attribution to the original author.


Fadwa Wazwaz – A beautiful prophet and a beautiful Messenger by… | Facebook

As Published on Facebook on December 25, 2016 without the video by Sami Yusuf, The Source
A beautiful prophet and a beautiful Messenger
by Fedwa Wazwaz
I want to clarify that my posts are aimed at questions I have received over the years regarding Prophet Muhammad, upon him peace and blessings. They are not meant to be marital advice. The points made are meant to help people better understand the character of Prophet Muhammad, upon him peace and blessings given the false accusations against him.
If you are having marital problems, best to seek a marriage counselor that is ethical, trained and trustworthy.
Having said that, I want to focus on false accusations of being a womanizer and abuser. These are simple posts and I hope to end by the end of the Islamic month of Rabi Al Awwal. There will be more information in my book and more cases explored.
First, let me explain that the Prophet held himself to a higher standard than his community. Likewise, he told his wives, your punishment for violations are double the ordinary Muslims.
The next post will focus on rejection, but before I discuss the post on accepting rejection from Women, I want to discuss a case where he gave advice to someone struggling with matters of divorce.
Khawlah bint Tha’labah is a companion of the Prophet, upon him peace and blessings. There is a chapter titled after her, Al
Mujadilah or The Woman Who Complained
She was married to Aws ibn al-Samit another companion. During an argument, Aws used an utterance that meant at the time she was divorced from her husband. It was a cultural tradition that was very disrespectful to women.
For brevity I will fast forward and bypass details as that is not the important part of the post, Khawlah went to complain to the Prophet, upon him peace and blessings.
Prophet Muhammad, could only give her what he knew and practiced, so he told her to be patient. He was very forbearing and patient himself with his spouses and people in general.
However, Khawlah complained to God himself.
The important part to note here is how did the Prophet, upon him peace and blessings respond?
I wanted to give this example from our faith. Often times, especially extroverts, and my daughter is an extrovert – we love to talk and express our feelings. The problem with that is our feelings are understood as facts.
For example, when we express love – we refuse to acknowledge the suffering even when presented with facts, and when we hate, we refuse to acknowledge the good – even when presented with facts.
People experience that in various forms and degrees. However, the issue becomes a problem – when we fail to comprehend the boundaries and the right of the oppressed to push the offender to their boundaries. Or a boundary needs to be created as another human is being abused.
God sends down revelation to the Prophet, upon him peace and blessings in her defense. The language was bold, firm and strong, and a big penalty was prescribed for such behaviors. How you feel about it, if you cried or not are all irrelevant matters. The world does not revolve around your tears and feelings.
Her rights were restored. The man was penalized. A social ill was called out boldly and strongly. A community educated. The powerless and helpless breathed a sigh of relief.
Now, it opens another door for a conversation on healing, reconciliation, and trust.
Trust and Healing
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Prophet Muhammad, upon him peace and blessings told her, ‘Let him release a slave.’
She responded, ‘O Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him), he does not have the means to do that.’
He then said, ‘Then let him fast for two consecutive months.’
She said, ‘By Allah, he is an old man, he is not able to do that.’
He said, ‘Then let him feed sixty poor people.’
She said, ‘O Messenger of Allah, he does not have that much.’
He said, ‘Then we will help him.’
She said she will contribute to the penalty fee.
He said, ‘You have done right and done well. Go and give it in charity on his behalf, then take care of your husband properly.’
And she did so.
Analysis
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God is wise and He knows what is behind all the complaints.
At times we spend hours talking and projecting our conjured ideas and sharing our feelings but we do not hear or listen to a word said.
God heard.
Boundaries are set firmly to help us to hear and listen to our inner souls.
At times behind anger is Love and Feelings of Not Needed or feelings of Worthlessness.
While she came to complain about her husband, she also pleads with the Prophet regarding the big penalty and goes from complaining to contributing to the penalty fee.
The Prophet – did not psychoanalyze her based on social ills, conjured ideas, and prejudices towards women at the time. He does not blame her or belittle her pain or suffering but calls her to what he practices himself.
The revelation that came down was a healing and nurturing not just for her and her husband, but the whole community.
Through the dialogue with the Prophet, she is made to discover WITHOUT the Prophet shoving it in her face – that her husband is old, poor and sick and needs to be taken care of well. Her husband’s actions are probably due to his feelings of not being able to provide or take care of his wife, possibly feeling worthless and not needed.
He discovers her feelings of genuine love for him which nurtures him to a better man and he becomes more kinder with his wife afterwards.
The community learns the importance of respecting women in general.
Women and the helpless learn that if they are not heard or understood, to take their complaint to God. God opens doors for everyone to hear what they need to hear.
Peace and Blessings Upon Prophet Muhammad, his family and his companions.

In 2020, I wrote about the transformation of inner noise into a symphony, the spiritual psychology of listening, and the ethical architecture of listening to oneself, others, and God. These were not generic reflections; they were part of a distinct framework I had been developing for years. When similar metaphors and structures later appeared in other publications without acknowledgment, I recognized the overlap. My concern is not personal — it is about honoring intellectual lineage and maintaining the ethics of attribution.
As published on Facebook on January 26, 2020 without the song by Maher Zain
Praising God in Difficult Times
“It has been said that the essence of courage is not never having fear, but overcoming that fear when you have it. In many ways, the struggle of din[adhering to values of your faith] is the same. If it was always so easy for us to ‘stay in it’ then there wouldn’t be much value in it. The key is to struggle with yourself, and surrender even when you don’t feel like it, and when it doesn’t come easy.”
— Steven Krauss
We begin a new month of the Hjri calendar (which follows the lunar calendar), Jumada al-Thani or the second dry season. I like to think of it as faith has reached its zenith point, and now we will slowly decline to sunset, a period of darkness, then we begin a new dawn break again. And the cycle of this worldly life continues. I like to think that we will all face moments when our faith and values will be difficult to practice, where our feelings might not be in sync or we no longer feel like it. This is a time when we are challenged to practice not because it makes us feel good, but we genuinely believe in the message. I always felt that praising God is the medicine in such moments or times.
The last theme was focusing on amplifying voices of people who are oppressed, encouraging them to form a coalition or a power base to respond to the oppression they are facing with wisdom while being mindful of the many pitfalls in doing so.
I ended the theme prior (Boundaries and abuse) with the following dua or supplication, and will end the theme on oppression likewise. This theme will be on praising God in difficult times or when we don’t feel like it anymore. It is also important when facing the oppressor, as you cannot face him/her/them alone or without God.
“That we may exalt You much
And remember You much.
Indeed, You are of us ever Seeing.”
(Qur’an 20:33-35)
We can join the symphony of every living thing that is praising God while doing so.
A companion of the Prophet, Ibn Abbas narrated,
I heard the Messenger of Allah saying: “O Allah, I ask You of Your mercy, that You guide by it my heart, and gather by it my affair, and bring together that which has been scattered of my affairs, and correct with it that which is hidden from me, and raise by it that which is apparent from me, and purify by it my actions, and inspire me by it with that which contains my guidance, and protect me by it from that which I seek protection, and protect me by it from every evil.
O Allah give me faith and certainty after which there is no disbelief, and mercy, by which I may attain the high level of Your generosity in the world and the Hereafter.
O Allah, I ask You for success [in that which You grant, and relief] in the Judgment, and the positions of the martyrs, and the provision of the successful, and aid against the enemies.
O Allah, I leave to You my need, and my actions are weak, I am in need of Your mercy, so I ask You, O Decider of the affairs, and O Healer of the chests, as You separate me from the punishment of the blazing flame, and from seeking destruction, and from the trial of the graves.
O Allah, whatever my opinion has fallen short of, and my intention has not reached it, and my request has not encompassed it, of good that You have promised to anyone from Your creation, or any good You are going to give to any of Your servants, then indeed, I seek it from You and I ask You for it, by Your mercy,
O Lord of the Worlds. O Allah, Possessor of the strong rope, and the guided affair, I ask You for security on the Appointed Day, and Paradise on the Day of Immortality along with the witnesses, brought-close, who bow and prostrate, who fulfill the covenants, You are Merciful, Loving, and indeed, You do what You wish.
O Allah, make us guided guiders and not misguided misguiders, an ally to Your friends, an enemy to Your enemies. We love due to Your love, those who love You, and hate, due to Your enmity those who oppose You.
O Allah, this is the supplication (that we are capable of), and it is upon You to respond, and this is the effort (that we are capable of), and upon You is the reliance.
O Allah, appoint a light in my heart for me, and a light in my grave, and light in front of me, and light behind me, and light on my right, and light on my left, and light above me, and light below me, and light in my hearing, and light in my vision, and light in my hair, and light in my skin, and light in my flesh, and light in my blood, and light in my bones.
O Allah, magnify for me light, and appoint for me a light. Glory is to the One who wears Glory and grants by it. Glory is to the One for Whom glorification is not fitting except for Him, the Possessor of Honor and Bounties, Glory is to the Possessor of Glory and Generosity, Glory is to the Possessor of Majesty and Honor”
Chorus:
Subhanaka rabbee subhanak
Subhanaka ma a’dhama shaanak
Nad’uka wanarju ghufraanak
Nad’uka wanarju ghufraanaka Rabbee
(Glory be to You my Lord, glory be to You
Glory be to You, How great is Your state of glory!
We supplicate to You and hope for Your forgiveness
We supplicate to You and hope for Your forgiveness my Lord)

Note: After I explored this companion in depth years ago, I noticed a wave of new content from various speakers and “scholars” covering the same figure — often using the same interpretive frameworks, themes, and insights I had developed. None of this work acknowledged my earlier contributions.

In Smith’s case, the overlap extends to ideas and formulations that were uniquely my own. I do not know him personally; I only recognize the distinct reflections of my own in his material. My concern is not personal — it is ethical. Attribution is a basic scholarly responsibility, and honoring sources is part of honoring the integrity of the tradition itself.

When we cannot add anything original to a conversation, the ethical response is to uplift the voices that can and do not erase them. Honoring the source is part of honoring the truth.


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