The ‘True’ Act of a Muslim

heba-only.jpgBy Heba Abdel-Karim

Sitting at Borders on an early Saturday morning, I noticed an elderly couple coming to sit in an area near me. It was crowded, and the only two seats were quite far apart. One of them was right next to me. Being raised to respect the elderly, I happily gave up my seat for the man to sit by his wife. Not expecting a response, I started walking away to find another seat. He stopped me, however, and said something that amazed me, yet left me feeling cheerful until today. He said: “By the way, that was a true act of a Muslim.”

At that time, I was very happy with his comment, and I still am today. But now that I think back and reflect upon it, I am left pondering a question: How are we to know what is considered a true act of a Muslim and what isn’t?

Some may think that there really is no distinct answer to this question, and they may be right. It is difficult to discern which actions can be considered part of a religion, and which are part of human nature. The media often define how we make these distinctions. Because the U.S. media focus on a few ongoing stories, often covering them in an exaggerated or distorted fashion, the public may be misled into thinking that some aspects, such as terrorism or violence, are true Islam when they are not.

Media consumers may be led to believe that some deviant Muslims are actually practicing their religion. However, Muslims must try not to let these misconceptions frustrate them, as Allah (SWT) said in the glorious Qur’an: “Tolerate patiently what they [the non-Muslims] say and part with them in a polite manner” (73:10).

An Act of Kindness Can’t Only Be Considered ‘Muslim,’ and Neither Can an Act of Violence

Perhaps giving up my seat in Borders was just an act of kindness, which can come from any religion. But on the same note, just as an act of kindness cannot be used as a symbol for a particular religion, neither can an act of violence. There is nothing at all “Islamic” about acts of violence and terrorism. In fact, to the contrary, Islam is completely against such actions, as the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Faith is a restraint against all violence, let no mu’min [believer] commit violence.” Acts of violence and the like are simply the other side of human behavior: stirred emotions that come as a result of any group that feels itself less valued, no matter what its race or religion. Thus, in general, there are no concrete symbols that point to a certain human act as “Islamic.” The same follows for Christianity, Judaism, and other world religions.

The main facet of Islam that could be considered unique, however, is that Muslims consider their religion as a way of life, as a guiding factor and preparation for the hereafter. Life, for Muslims, should be a mere path that leads to the hereafter, in which we are held accountable for every second we spend on that path following the commands of God. We must accumulate as many good deeds as we can so as to guarantee a higher place in heaven. In this manner, every act done, whether small or big is considered as being part of the Shariah, or Islamic law, and everything is done for the sake of Allah (SWT) in order to compile good deeds for the hereafter.

The Shariah explains the specifics of how a Muslim should act and behave, how to sit and speak and how to care and share. A Muslim must treat others the way he wishes to be treated, with kindness and respect. Smiling at others is considered a form of charity. Most importantly, a Muslim is taught to care for and respect his or her elders and listen to his or her parents. Some of the qualities required of Muslims include being honest, truthful, trustworthy, modest, patient, tolerant, punctual, kind, generous, forgiving, brave and hard-working. Perhaps these qualities should be the basics of any human life. But that is the main reason why they are a must in Islam.

If you look through the Islamic law, you will find a saying of the prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) regarding each of these qualities. As an example, the Noble Prophet Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) said: “Nothing will weigh more heavily in the balance of the believing servant on the Day of Resurrection than a good attitude (towards others). Verily Allah hates those who utter vile words and obscene speech.” [Compiled by Al-Tirmidhi]

So Then, What’s the Moral of the Story?

As I gave up my seat for the elderly man to sit by his wife, I was doing a simple act that I had been raised to do, as my parents and religion had taught me, while expecting nothing in return. As the Prophet (p.b.u.h) said: “Do not think little of any good deed even if it is just greeting your brother with a cheerful countenance [face]” (Muslim). So even this little act of kindness is an important part of Islam, but cannot be judged as only a part of Islam. However, it is because such acts of kindness are the best part of human nature that they also should be considered the true acts of a Muslim.

Heba Abdel-Karim currently resides in Fridley, Minn. and is a student at the University of Minnesota.

8 thoughts on “The ‘True’ Act of a Muslim”

  1. Peace be upon you,

    Thank you for sharing a thought provoking article.
    Truly kindness is part of human nature, part of “fitrah” so to speak and it is Islam, a way of life as you say, that allows us to realise this humanity within us.

    Kind regards,

    Dont be sad

  2. An Intriguing article Heba! A peak into the soul of man (in this case young woman ;). A great way of looking at some of the daily minutae that we seldom take the time to review in our daily hectic lives. I love the depth to which you took this!


  3. If you translate “Muslim” as one who submits, it can fit the situation from many aspects. On the cultural level, you submitted to the mores of your upbringing; on the social level, you deferred to those you honor above yourself; on the level of faith, you treated others as you would have liked to be treated which is the basis of all world religions, thus submitting to God.

  4. such a great article Heba

    and about muslims actions. I think everything you do is consider an muslim action when you have the intention of doing something good for others and not thinking about a reward for it because you did it for your beliefs not for being praised or awarded

    in the end

    a really fascinating article

    Best wishes,

    Adel your old classmate

    and salam

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